Coco's Advice for Men

My lovely Coco recently gave advice to women on how to keep their men happy. Now she’s giving advice to men on how to keep their women happy and satisfied.
Here’s what she has to say:
Let me start off by commenting on the first blog I did recently. Even though there's a lot of love and people by my side... I can't believe what hatred other people hold. You know who you are...My blogs are intended to be fun, light-hearted thoughts that are on my mind. I'm not speaking for anybody but my own experience. I do not pretend or claim to be an authority on how anyone else should live their life. So why would my blog on "How To Keep A Man" be controversial? Yes, my suggestions may or may not be your cup of tea but its definitely worked for me. I'm very satisfied and happy with my husband working on a decade of marriage. What I was astonished by was how many people mentioned race, like it was a black and white thing. Not once did I mention color. This was a piece about making your man happy, why would the color of your skin have anything to do with it? I can be the color green and that still doesn't change the way I love and care for my man.So, lets move on to "How To Keep Your Women Satisfied"Men, you may have to step your game up. If we're willing to cater to you... you have to come back with the same efforts. Guys have the tendency to become lazy, after they so call, "get you". Now is that fair? So, you want us to look nice, wear high heels, dress cute, keep our body in shape. Then when we look at you, you are sloppy, forget to put deodorant on, don't brush your teeth or haven't even done a sit-up in years. What happened to dressing nice for us? This shows that you still care. Believe me, I love it when Ice gets into fitted shirts and my favorite cologne, its turns me on.So, the number #1 rule, perform with the same attention to details as when you first met.Another big subject is to compliment your women. We're for the most part sensitive creatures and you have to remember that. Tell her that a particular body part is out of this world, her eyes are beautiful, her skin is smooth, her hair is pretty, girls go nuts over this because it shows your still paying attention to her. All we want is to feel special! So, rule #2, compliments will get you everywhere.This leads to being a little romantic at times too. Yes, we know that this isn't your strong point, thats why we don't harp on it too long. Guys, food is the way to a woman's heart for the most of us. Maybe get a baby-sitter for the kids and take her to a restaurant that she never been to before. That's romantic! Leave "I love you notes' in her makeup compact or anywhere you'll know she'll see it. That's romantic! Get a simple rose and leave it on her windshield. That's romantic! See how simple this can be? Even if you don't have much money you can still be creative on showing her your love, the ideas are endless. Just put your mind to it. That's rule #3, show your romantic side.I touched a moment ago on sensitivity. This plays a big role in everyday women's life. We are emotional and men are logical. Woman like to talk, men are usually short on words. Take time to listen to your lady. We need to express our feelings, if you won't listen to her she may seek-out someone else that will and it might not be her close girlfriend. Like I said on my last blog, "communication" and "respect" are the keys to a long lasting relationship with your women. Rule #4, take time to listen. She needs to express herself.As for the bedroom? Hopefully you've got that covered but maybe that's another blog topic!Now here are some pointers in keeping your love alive...
* Wear silk boxers
* Snuggle with each other/play footsies

* Take her on a romantic getaway

* Say I Love you

* Do a chore around the house

* Give her a foot massage

* Get manicures together

* Whisper sweet nothings in her ear

* Get her a 'thinking of you' gift

* Watch the kids so she can do a hobby of hers

* Hold hands

* Make dinner

* Kiss passionately

* Get couple massages

* Let her know she's beautiful

* Joke and have fun

* Sexually? Find out what she loves and do it!Until my next thought…

Love,Coco

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Well, if Coco is right, then me and muh boo will be 2getha 4eva. Cus he does all this stuff…well sans the manicure bit. But alls I require is that his nails are clean and filed, which they are. So yea; thanks Coco. We’re all over it.

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Dear Coco...

The lovely Coco T has decided to share with us her tips on how to keep a man. Take it away Coco!
How do I keep a man? Well, I can only speak from experience because I'm not a doctor, just a woman that knows what she wants. To lay out my history with Ice, we have been married for 8 years and still going strong. We met in California on a movie set and have been inseparable ever since. Now we live in NY and at the moment we don't have any kids together. Everybody says relationships get boring, but it doesn't have to be that way, its entirely up to the both of you.
Ice and I work all day together on the set of his show "Law and Order", because I have an office there. But as soon as we get home, I'll change into a skimpy outfit like booty shorts and heels because it changes the mood from being business oriented. LADIES & GENTLEMEN...the most IMPORTANT advice I can give is to make sure you listen to one another!!!!! TALK A LOT!! I think the reason that Ice and I have made it in the celebrity world for so long is because we constantly communicate. Remember, relationships will always have those bad moments and it won't be rosy all the time. You have to be strong for one another and don't chicken out when you come to a bump in the road.
It may seem a little old fashioned but here are some pointers that you can do to cater to your man:
Make him a cold drinkCook him his favorite foodGive him a body rubDress in his favorite outfit or itemDraw him a bathWatch all his favorite shows for a nightPlay video games with himAnd finally, kiss or lick his feet. Hehe- LOL. - very optional
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I’m down for (and already do) most of this but I need to watch my shows all night, every night. That’s why having multiple TVs in your home is important. And I loves muh boo with all my heart but there’s no way in hell I’m putting his toe juice in my mouf. Nope! No way!

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Ice T Finds Imposter on Twitter

Ice and Coco wer at M2 in NY last Thursday but had to cut the appearance short when Ice realized that someone had swagger jacked him on Twitter.
“I went on Twitter… I found a dude on there named Ice-T, and he ain’t (sic) even cool,” he said. “Dude’s got my name and he’s got a picture of me from Law & Order, but I’m looking at what he’s writing and it’s real corny and whack. And I’m like, if you’re going to represent me, at least have some flavour, player.” Source
That explains when I saw them driving down the street the day after at 8:30am they didn’t look the least bit tired. Anyway, don’t fret Ice, you’ll get the jacker back.

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Coco Can't Wait to Take it Off!

My most favorite blond in the world, Coco T, recently spoke to New York Magazine about her excitement over Halloween. She said, "It's my day! I get to get naked! Finally!!!"
Ice-T added, "You know, a lot of people comment, but some chicks like to be wild. You come home and they're standing on the couch and they want to jump at you and tackle you. Coco's one of them girls." Source
I love it! I can’t wait to see what she comes as this year. I’m voting for Lady Godiva.

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Different Strokes for Different Folks

The Sun asked Ice T and Coco at her 29th b-day party last week, what the secret to a happy marriage is. The answer:
Coco answered, “It’s the Stroke baby. We have a certain Stroke he does and he surprises every now and then with a different Stroke.”
Ice-T added, “Sex is 90 per cent mental. It happens in the brain, so she thinks my Stroke is special – but it’s the way I’ve got her head believing it’s something special. And that’s what adds to the Stroke. You can come in and hit it on a swing, but it ain't gonna be the Stroke!" Source
I’m not a bettin' type of girl but I bet this here stroke consists of smacking her in the face, lying on top of her and doing his bidness and falling asleep immediately after…occasionally while still on top of her. If that’s the case then it’s special indeed.
Wanna see the vid of Coco talking about the stroke? Click Here! (It’s worth it to take 5 minutes out of your day to view this journalistic masterpiece.)